Archive for March, 2010

Eager to please


Being the boss, the boy loves to hear me ask for sex. Confident in the knowledge that I always will, he’s content to sit back and wait to be jumped on, pleaded with, or asked politely. It’s a fun game for both of us – he revels in the luxury of having a girlfriend who […]

Most of my vast collection of sex toys are for personal use only, but I’ve tried plenty of couples’ ones in my time too. The one I return to time and again – despite having fancy things like this in the toy box – is the trusty vibrating cock ring. I picked one up in […]



“I think we need a spanking paddle,” he said. “My hand is starting to get sore.” I’d have made a snarky comment about the relative soreness of my arse vs his hand… but I do have some sense of self-preservation.

Did you know that talking dirty and S&M are classified as bad sex now? I sure as fuck didn’t. I guess I’ve been doing it wrong this whole time. Damn. I have long since ceased reading glossy mags because I inevitably find something in there that offends me to my very core – it angers […]



I got a lovely gift today. I cry easily when I get emotional, angry, grumpy, tired, hormonal or upset. It makes me feel manipulative sometimes; but most of all vulnerable. Weak and silly and absurd. I have tried so hard in my relationships to not cry. With my friends, my parents and my lovers — […]

As you all undoubtedly know, this Sunday is a very special day. Those oft-forgotten stars in our lives, who bring so much joy, happiness and comfort – this Sunday is the day when we pay them back for all the nice things they’ve done for us. The memories, the laughs, the ups and downs (especially […]



Forgot to link to the interview I did with the lovely Panti for The University Observer. Though it was kind of last-minute, it was good to be writing a feature again, and I think it turned out rather well. See?