Archive for February, 2011

*dances* So after a year and a bit of dating, myself and the boy moved in together. It was something he mentioned to me about six months in, actually… and so while everyone else squeed and fluttered around us with glee, we took it all in our stride. We’d been planning on it for a […]


I read this piece on the Anti-Room today and it made me rather angry. It talks about “punishment” porn becoming mainstream, or at least it purports to. What I saw, though, were a lot of tacit judgements about the people who indulge in the kind of sex portrayed in that type of porn. “disturbed” and […]


One of the symptoms of depression generally is a lack of interest in sex. That shouldn’t really come as a surprise to anyone, as it’s difficult to imagine taking joy in anything when one is suffering under the weight of the world. It’s a symptom that didn’t affect me this time, however. Rather than push […]